30 days and what have we learned?

Today marks day 30, the day I was supposed to have it all figured out. Well, I don't have to tell you that 30 days have come and gone and I definitely haven't completed the sweeping overhaul of my life.
But, I have learned a hell of a lot. Even though I haven't quit my job, moved to Tuscany, created a new life and lost 30 pounds, I have managed to focus on positive change for a solid 30 days. I think it's been nurturing and positive. I definitely feel that I'm laying the groundwork for the next phase of my life.

I love lists. I thrive off of them. So, the best way to communicate to you what I've learned and to communicate back to myself what I've achieved is to write it in list form.

I've learned

• You can't put a timeline on fate
• When I think of what I'd most like to be doing, sleeping for a solid week is at the top of the list. And it has always been at the top of that list. Seriously.
• I don't really have a career passion. What I want most of all is to care for my family.
• I've been really embarrassed about admitting that. 
• People should realize that being rude doesn't command good customer service.
• In fact, quite the opposite is true
• Turning down a job offer can be a kick to your self esteem.
• Not being selected for your dream job can be a kick in the teeth
• Turning 35 is not a big deal.
• Sometimes your own thoughts are your worst enemy
• Sparkly toenails can improve your outlook
• How my dream is realized his not important. I must believe that it's already arrived.
• If you put a 30 day deadline on your blog, you're going to spend the 30th day figuring out a new headline for your blog.

Speaking of which.......I've got a blog to re-title.